Flying With A Toddler

Two children, 80+ countries across six continents, including two years of full time travel, I feel I have the flying with a toddler tips nailed! Toddlers are such energetic, not to mention emotionally labile pint-sized little people. I mean, I’m over here just trying to survive the day without any epic meltdowns about toast being cut the wrong way, never mind bundling into a closed space with tens of strangers for hours on end. I cannot tell you how many people email me DAILY asking for tips on flying with a toddler! For some reason, it makes us parent so nervous, almost to the point of putting fun travel and adventures on hold for a few years. I’m here to tell you, don’t worry, I have lots of tips!

I’ve taken my kids everywhere and the thought of giving up travelling for the sake of a long flight with a very energetic toddler is not an option. The end reward of a new destination is what it’s all about! As a family, we have so many fond memories of our little ones experiencing new sights, smells and sounds in a foreign country, making it totally worth every minute on a flight. So with all the positive vibes in the world, I’ve tackled the best way to execute the task head on! With plenty of preparation, it’s totally possible to fly with a toddler successfully. Of course they may be a little tired or grouchy at times and that’s where my tried and tested tips come to play. I must point out flying with a baby or flying with older kids is a lot different than flying with a toddler, dare I say a little easier, but like I mentioned preparation is everything. You can also check out our full toddler carry on travel essentials post here!

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PREPARING FOR THE FLIGHT

 FLYING WITH A TODDLER

I love the acronym S.A.S, it stands for snacks, activities and sleep aids. These are the three things that are going to save your ass with keeping your toddler entertained and contained to the best of your ability. I will go into this in detail below but keep this little easy reminder in the back of your mind!

 

Esme embarking on another flight as a toddler

 

SNACK PREPARATION

Out of all the fights we have taken with our kids the most successful ones have been when we bring tonnes of their favourite snacks and meals with us! Yes, it can be annoying bringing an entire extra bag of food, but if their tummies are satisfied and they’re chewing they are quiet! I try to be as realistic as possible with what I bring in terms of mess. Small dry foods are obviously best, but may not sustain an entire flight. I tend to make sandwiches wrapped in reusable food grade cloth rather than lunch boxes for space.

I always bring bananas as it’s such a good filling food. Equally cut up grapes, dried raising and compressed fruit bars are an amazing snack. I always bring their stainless water sippy cup to keep it cool and it is super easy to fill up in the airport to reduce waste. Cabin crew are always helpful when it comes to assisting with warming drinks if needed, providing additional snacks and so on. And don’t forget to order a ‘toddler meal’ in advance! It’s a requirement for almost every airline and they will not have a toddler specific meal unless its ordered beforehand.

ACTIVITY PREPARATION

Having new and engaging activities are key. Every child is different when it comes to their interests but throwing just about everything at the situation to ensure success is the best way forward. I am a big fan of the Keep em Quiet bags, produced in the UK. They are specifically designed to keep little ones of all different ages entertained on a flight.  They come in different age groups, gender (also gender neutral available), as well as length of trip. If you are going away for a weekend they can be smaller and obviously a little cheaper in price. They are stuffed full of activities such as mess free painting, 3d puzzles, snacks, special colouring in and so on.

Flying with a toddler

 

ACTIVITY PACKS

There are some similar travel specific activity packs in Australia called Busy Bags worth checking out. Likewise in the US, there is one made by Penguin Travel. You can check out the US and Australian version here! My only criticism with these packs is related to the waste, although many things are reusable such as the re-stickable stickers etc, the Keep Em Quiet bags do produce a lot of plastic waste. If you don’t have access to one of the travel specific activity bags, a simple trip to your local pound/ dollar /euro shop to buy a few low cost items to make up your own activity bag is always an option. We have also recently discovered these great little globe packs which are designed with your destination in mind. They are filled with a passport with the country’s flag, and activities designed to introduce your child to the country you will be visiting!

AMAZON FIRE TABLET

The whole idea is to reduce screen time which I love. We do bring an Amazon Fire tablet with us as a last resort, it can be quite handy to get our little ones to snuggle down to sleep. The reason I specifically love the Amazon Fire tablet is because it can be controlled by parents, with very specific child-friendly and educative apps. We can also download movies before our trip which have saved the day a few times.

 

Flying with a toddler

INFLIGHT SLEEP AIDS

So now that we’ve dealt with snacks and activities, lets move onto sleeping aids. We all know comfort and minimal stimulation is key when it comes to getting our little ones to have sweet dreams. For most of us, if it’s ‘sleepy sleepy’ time on a flight, it can often be the most agonising time for us as parents. I’ve often paced up and down, stroked my little ones head to no avail. From the bright lights, people chatting and just a new environment it can be so tough. Having a sleeping aid is key and really helpful if your little one has their own seat.

PLANE PAL FOR FLYING WITH A TODDLER

I have tried out both the Plane Pal and the JetKids BedBox. They are both fantastic options to create a first class bed for your toddler on a long haul flight. Many airlines accept them, however there are a handful that do not allow it, so it’s worth checking before investing. Plane Pal is a simple inflatable pillow that fills the leg room space in front of the seat and creates a flat surface for your little one to stretch out. It packs away nicely and is not too big to carry around.

 

Flying with a toddler

JET KIDS BEDBOX  FOR FLYING WITH A TODDLER

The JetKids BedBox is quite a different product!! It is a mini wheelie suitcase that also acts as a scooter and is an amazing way of getting through the airport if your little one has the stability to sit on it. There is space inside that can be used to store an activity bag, some snacks and a change of clothing. When on board the suitcase has a third function, again, filling the legroom space in front of the seat  and creating a flat surface for little ones to stretch out. This product is quite expensive, however if you travel often I think it’s worth every penny. Here is my full review of the Jet Kids Bed Box.

 

Flying with a toddler

 

SHADE FOR FLYING WITH A TODDLER

If your toddler is under two, you may be lucky enough to bag a bassinet seat. Priority is generally given to younger babies. Likewise, if your kids are anything like my tall kids they may not fit in the bassinet. The best airline for a toddler bassinet solution is British Airways. They have a reclined seat option as opposed to the box and is literally perfect for kids ages around one to 18 months roughly.

Flying with a toddler

 

Another great product is the Cozigo which has a double function! It can cover a stroller as a sun and light protection but can also pop up over a bassinet on a flight. Keeping those hideously bright lights on a flight is the hardest part and Cozigo is great option to over shade to your toddler or baby. I have a full review of the product here.  Don’t forget the all important familiar cuddly toys and a light weight but warm blanket. Those familiar smells and comforts from home are always a winner. I find fleece toddler blanket really good at compacting down into my hands luggage without taking up too much space.

 AT THE AIRPORT WITH A TODDLER

So now that you’ve made the all important preparations at home for the flight, there are quite a few things you can do once you arrive at the airport. From scoring an extra seat at check-in, to making the most of free time before the flight, I have you covered! Make sure to arrive with plenty of time to clear security, have something to eat and a play before boarding.

 

Flying with a toddler

 CHECK-IN DESK REQUESTS

Like I mentioned about the sleeping aids, the ideal scenario is for your toddler to have their own seat. I never bought a seat for my kids when they were under 2. However I always asked if they had a spare seat at check in. Most of time we were lucky enough to score the spare seat on board and so we could make sure our little one was comfortable and had space. For the few times we were not so lucky, I had my baby carrier to hand to help get little one to sleep. Obviously an entire night flight is not so comfortable with a toddler on your front but the baby carrier definitely made it easier.

 

Flying with a toddler

 

 SECURITY WITH A TODDLER

Family security lines can be amazing. I recently travelled through Barcelona Airport where they had a play pen right at the security line. In Barcelona airport the also had a low level machine to push everything, from our buggy and suitcase through for scanning. It made it so easy for us. Gatwick Airport can be hit and miss, sometimes the line is so busy with families it ends up taking longer. The best thing to do is assess each time and see if the better option is to take the regular queue.

 

HAVE EVERYTHING READY FOR INSPECTION 

Try to avoid extra hassle for security and get a long flight with toddler off to the best start! Liquids will be tested if they are your little ones food and drink for the journey. I always forget at least one thing at the bottom of the bag! Wear things you are not going to have to take off, this is not fun whilst chasing a toddler. For example, I try not to wear boots and a belt because I know I have to take them off! I keep my passport hanging around my neck in one of those special zip pouches. Again having everything to hand is really helpful .

LOOK FOR FAMILY FACILITIES AND DEALS

Most airports have an area for kids to play, Look at the information screens to find them. Some are better than others, Dubai Airport is a favourite of ours as well as the soft play at Heathrow Terminal 2. I find so many of the western airports go the extra mile during school breaks. For example in Heathrow in some restaurants, kids eat free at some restaurants in the terminal. I prefer to eat a good meal before boarding the plane. As strict vegetarians, the food options are not always that good so we always have our big bag of snacks to fall back on.

BEST TIME TO BOARD

Airlines always prioritise young families to board, however that’s not always helpful! I find letting our kids run around the terminal and burn their energy off is a better starting point to get them to sit down and put their belt on. Having that extra time whilst everyone else boards can be tricky in my opinion, so this is always our default approach. In some cases if our toddler is on the verge of falling asleep, we board early and make the most of settling in peacefully.

 

Flying with a toddler

 

ON BOARD A FLIGHT WITH A TODDLER

Don’t be afraid to ask the crew for help if you are flying with kids! If they see you are flying with a toddler, they will normally give you a kiddie pack, if they forget just ask because it can usually kill at least half an hour. I try to prepare my little ones for wearing their seat belt and provide all the distractions possible during that time. In reality it’s only during take off, landing and turbulence that we really need our toddler to conform so distraction is key.

 

Flying with a toddler

 

If my kids want to walk up and down I let them. Trying to contain them is really challenging and can be harder doing that then simply letting them stretch their legs. It’s nicer for everyone involved, people prefer to see a happy child zooming past as opposed to a contained upset toddler in the seat behind. Drip feed snacks and activities throughout the flight, one by one. Likewise keep everyone hydrated with water and make sure to have enough diapers and change of clothes for any accidents.

TIPS FOR LOOKING AFTER YOU!

Make sure you don’t forget about yourself when travelling with a toddler on a plane. Stay well hydrated, take time for lots of leg movements to prevent blood clots and try to get your head down for a sleep while your little one is. Or, if not a sleep, then have a glass of wine, relax and watch a movie. If you are flying with someone else, take turns.

This is the best advice I can give to you having taken my two kids around the world a number of time. I find that the most draining part about flying with a toddler is the amount of energy you have to put into the entertainment. We rarely have too many tears or tantrums onboard if we make the necessary effort.

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HAND LUGGAGE PACKING LIST

  • i-angel toddler hipseat carrier 
  • Snacks and water
  • Activities / toys
  • Sleeping aid, light weight blanket and a cuddly toy
  • Change of clothes or pajamas ( one for you too)
  • Nappies and wipes or maybe a travel potty if you are toilet training
  • Kiddie analgesia
  • Nappy cream
  • Desnuffle for toddlers
  • Toothbrush and toothpaste
  • Anything for a freshen up at the end of a flight for both you and your toddler

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Gill

Great tips ๐Ÿ™‚

Jenn
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Jenn

Hi! Do you request todller meal before you fly or when you board? Thanks!

Rachael
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Rachael

Great article! I’m doing an 18 hour journey in a couple of weeks with my 14 month Tasmanian devil son ? I’m so nervous! Xx

Veronika
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Veronika

Thank you for your tips, we fly end of May from Munich to Tokyo with our 18 months old daughter. We fly in the night and hope she will find a little sleep. ?
Wish us luck!!
Greetings from Italy

Fernando
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Fernando

How did it go? We are facing the same situation and I would love to see what you learned at that time.

Kristy
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Kristy

I just wanted to say a massive thanks you to you for these tips. I was not looking forward to our first flying experience with a toddler but it went really well. She was more then happy running around before we got on the plane and she loved all the new bits we picked up. Thanks again! Here’s to Venice next week!!

Marie Birkelund
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Marie Birkelund

Thanks for your great tips. We have a 14 hour flight with our 2 year old ahead – luckily it’s overnight and he usually sleeps well. But do you have any tips regarding how to keep him (and his parents ๐Ÿ˜‰ as comfy as possible when sleeping? Are there any cool pillows or something designed for toddlers ?

Phil
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Phil

Great tips … starting to look forward to our long haul flight now ๐Ÿ™‚ x

Michaela
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Michaela

Thanks for the advice so much. I am traveling to New Zealand for Christmas this year with my 1 year old. I feel better now ๐Ÿ™‚

Nicola
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Nicola

I know this is an old post but just wanted to say thanks for the tips! I am flying with my 18 month old later this month – I am panicking already because he can’t sit still for more than a minute. This makes me feel like we will be ok!

Camilla
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Camilla

Thank you – really helpful post ๐Ÿ™‚

Bev
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Bev

This is a great blog and I hope to put many of your tips in to practice. What would you advise for getting a 2.5 year old comfy on a 8hr then 17hr flight as we canโ€™t take on a fly legs up or similar – emirates have said no.

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Fany

Thank you so much for all the tips! I am flying with my husband and our two kids to France. (One 2 months old and one 20 months old)
We didnโ€™t buy a seat for them so we will have them on our lap. Iโ€™m nervous about the trip but itโ€™s an overnight direct flight, hopefully we can get that bassinet and may be an extra seat if the plane is not full but I know it will be unlikely.
Can I contact you with some questions before we leave if some come up?
Thank you!

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I’m happy to try to answer any questions you have. You might want to check out our Flying With A Baby post as well if you haven’t already. Good luck with the flight!